Sexual performance anxiety
Some couples always have a question in their minds about sexual performance, do I do it with the picture required, does my wife find some shortcomings and do not find pleasure, those previous thoughts are a reason in the emergence of what is known as sexual anxiety that affects a man and makes him unable to do
In the simplest of his marital duties, he loses the ability to enjoy due to a lot of thinking about it
Sometimes it even comes to abstaining from sex.
What is sexual anxiety?
Sexual anxiety is defined as a state of not focusing on sexual pleasure, which is the goal
The main of the sexual relationship, directing both thinking and focus to evaluate sexual performance which affects the relationship and spoils the sense of pleasure for both parties because it is difficult for a person to enjoy it If he suffers from “sexual anxiety”
Are there signs of sexual anxiety?
During sexual intercourse, one of the main goals is to please the other party, but because
Feelings of anxiety become more difficult
Because of anxiety, there is an increase in nervous pressure that causes narrowing of blood vessels and consequently small amount of blood flows into the penis, which makes it more difficult for the penis to reach an erection
Although the person does not suffer from any organic disease, he only suffers from sexual performance anxiety
In addition to the fact that the relationship takes a shorter period of time than the expected normal rate, which
It causes feelings of anger and sadness for both parties of the relationship
What are the causes of sexual anxiety?
The psychological state has a very big impact on the sexual relationship, so if the patient suffers from some life pressures prevent him from doing it normally, in addition to worrying about sexual performance stands in the way of satisfying the partner in the relationship
Also, too much thinking about it makes a person lose the ability to immerse himself in the mental state that he is in need, so there is a lack of focus on sexual arousal, and no
erection, as we mentioned before, causes a person to become distracted and not reach orgasm.
As for women, it may cause the body not to produce the secretions necessary for sex, and women may experience a loss of sexual desire as a result of sexual performance anxiety.
The most common causes of sexual anxiety:
Fear of not being able to satisfy the other party sexually
Negative self-view
There are some problems in the relationship
The husband’s fear of not having an erection
The husband’s fear of premature or delayed ejaculation
The wife’s fear that it will be difficult to reach orgasm
Concern about penis size diagnosis of sexual anxiety
Sexual anxiety is diagnosed in women as in men, by its effect on arousal is the loss of the ability to have an erection or reach orgasm and not secrete the fluids the body needs for the relationship to take place in the right way, as well as the lack and loss of desire for sex due to focus in over-performance
It is normal during the examination that the doctor asks you about some things such as medical history and genetics, what thoughts haunt you that you find difficult to get rid of, is there a particular medication you have been taking, since when
And you suffer from that problem?
Your answers to these questions help the doctor in your treatment journey and help him develop the appropriate plan
for your condition
The best solutions to get rid of sexual performance anxiety
Anxiety and fear of sexual performance are due to the psychological state, so if you suffer from it
You should consult a mental health professional with whom you can talk about your personal life and sexuality, because this matter is considered more sensitive for some
And you should know that this problem is widespread and that you need to consult a doctor is better.
What can you do that does not call for any feeling of shame or embarrassment and in turn the doctor will start doing some tests that help get rid of the problem and continue your life without obstacles
obstructing its path
So, in short, the best solutions to get rid of the problem:
Consult a psychiatrist who specializes in sexual problems to help you find solutions that you feel comfortable in your life in general and sexual life in particular
Participation of the relationship partner in the problem facing your relationship and your attempt to reach the best ways to remove obstacles from your life and get rid of them.
In the meantime, if you are looking for Mental Health Consulting. You can always contact Dr. Mona Reda
please contact us on:
02 24159997
01112169556
01002169556Or visit the clinic at this address: 94 El Merghany Street Cairo, Egypt.
