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Love a key factor in marriage

Love a key factor in marriage
Love a key factor in marriage
There are many marital relationships that have been built and established without love, some believe that this kind is a short-term relationship and does not last long because love is one of the most important factors on which the relationship and marital life are built.
We believe that this relationship is limited to matters related to the family in general, as well as understanding and respect between the two parties and they practice marital life because it is an essential thing without each spouse loving each other.
We can compare married life without love as life without its basics, such as water and air.
Here we can ask a question.
Is love the essence of marriage and its existence before marriage is necessary?
One of the most difficult things is for a person to live his life without experiencing true feelings of love and what love reflects on him in terms of physical and psychological symptoms.
Fear and jealousy, a craving to see the one he loves, an increased heartbeat accompanied by a feeling of lightness and attraction, but it is not necessary for everyone who feels these feelings to take steps towards the other party
Love is what spreads its tolerance and harmony on the marital relationship, no matter how many problems and disagreements there are, where a love-based marriage relationship differs from that traditional relationship that may need the presence of love so that the two partners intercede for each other some of the lapses and disagreements.
And if you are reading this article, it is expected that you will have a question about whether love comes
after marriage?
In some cases we can say that love is not necessary before marriage, and that there is a difference
It is essential between the relationship of love and the relationship of traditional marriage, but what we must emphasize is that the feeling of love is one of the basic things for most of us, as we all want to find someone who has feelings for us.
He cares for us.
And let’s go back to it again about that maybe love comes after marriage, maybe not, but most importantly
It is the basic details within the relationship, and there is what the great majority unanimously agree on, which is that love with a thunderbolt spark and excessive feelings is not easy to reach after marriage and may require effort from both parties, and there is deep, quiet love and true love
It is easy to come after marriage, whether it is a traditional or love marriage.
What distinguishes marriage from love is the strengthening of the relationship over time. If the spouses do not understand the nature and truth of love, they will face a decrease in the strength of love and a gradual coldness of feelings with much anxiety at an early stage, because this will be a reason for building false illusions before marriage, while at the other time the marriage will be more realistic and shocking to others.
And if there is no love in the relationship between the spouses, the task will be more difficult indeed, and neither of the two partners will concede to the other to make him happy or to resolve a dispute between them, and therefore selfishness and preference for interest prevail between them. And each thinks of himself before the other.
Is marriage without love considered a failure?
Perhaps the biggest flaw in a marriage without love is the desire for romantic love for one or both parties. A person’s search for love may blind him to true deep love. Therefore, we find that a marriage that is based on a serious and frank acquaintance in the absence of strong feelings has greater chances of success than marriage. Without love and without acquaintance, and marriage that takes place at the height of love may collide with reality and the nature of the change of feelings, and the best thing is for the spouses to have love and have realistic knowledge of their feelings to help them continue the love after marriage and its growth, and its development into deep love.
Love a key factor in marriage
In the end, we would like to clarify that marital life is not only love, love and adoration, but there are other very necessary factors on which it is based, such as mutual respect, consideration of interests, raising children, in addition to the factor of affection, and this is what makes some husbands have to stay with a wife whom they do not feel love towards. The continuation is only because of her good character, or because there are children between them, and the wife may also be forced to stay with a husband she does not like that love, either because of his good character, or because there are children between them.
Love a key factor in marriage
 If your relationship is going through apathy and drought, there is nothing wrong with consulting a psychiatrist who specializes in marital relations, as he may help you discover aspects that each of you is ignorant of about the other, the fruits of which may be the presence of long-lost love and feelings.

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