Eid is an opportunity to refresh feelings among couples
Eid brings feelings of joy and happiness that fill hearts, as they are days of joy and intimacy that surround all family members, especially married couples.
Eid is one of the seasons when the souls and feelings rise to comprise loving hearts. Eid days are a good opportunity for couples to achieve a great deal of feelings of love and understanding, to reject differences, and to postpone problems and worries. It is a chance to renew the bonds of love and communication between couples, parents and sons and to replace sorrows with joy and happiness and to replace misunderstandings with peace and love.
There is what is known as “dispute on the first day of Eid”. And these marital differences may occur as a result of a difference in points of view, whether it is related to strolling in the feast and choosing suitable places, or even determining the days of visiting relatives and friends. The souls get angry, and the joy of the holiday turns into a quarrel, until they go to their relatives with angry faces and depressed spirits, but the spouses must realize that this occasion is a good opportunity for their renewal. The marital relationship and renewed feelings of love and happiness between them, and an attempt by one of the parties to abandon his opinion contrary to the other party in order to resolve the dispute and differences to spread the feelings of friendliness and intimacy in the whole family.
Tips to spend Eid with pleasure and joy
Eid is an enjoyable occasion that highlights the wonderful meanings of feelings of happiness and intimacy, as it is an opportunity to mend relationships, especially the relationship between husband and wife, to receive a new stage full of love, kindness and tenderness between them, so that everyone can enjoy the joy of Eid.
These are some tips for couple to spend happy and fun Eid days:
1. Be ready for the feast by preparing the house, clothes and places for picnics, as well as determining the days of visiting the family and relatives to receive the feast with joy and happiness without disagreements and differences in opinions and points of view. Do this during the feast to get rid of boredom and chaos during the day for being happy and avoiding family problems.
2. Eid days are days when all family members gather together, to celebrate Eid with a pure spirit and loving hearts. These days should be better used to renew feelings of love and affection between family members, by doing some activities with each other, even in the simplest things such as watching TV together or get to know the hobbies of the children and buy what helps them develop these hobbies, and the parents must participate with the children in practicing these hobbies, as well as the participation of the mother in making and preparing Eid sweets. As this helps to avoid provoking conflicts between spouses and children, and increases the spirit of sharing and joy among all.
3. Take care to spend quality time with children in parks, visit family and relatives to bring joy back to life and feels the meanings of Eid. Because the joy of the children on the holiday makes the parents happy. The joy of the parents on the holiday and the expression of this joy in word fills the children with feelings of love and familiarity, and this in turn makes the days of the holiday happy and different, and makes us wait for them every year with enthusiasm and joyful hearts.
4. Postponing disagreements, problems and anxieties and trying to abandon small things that can lose the sense of Eid joy. It must be remembered that Eid days are days of joy when criticism should not be directed or problems made.
5. Gifts, Eid is always associated with its gifts, Eid gifts are not only related to the children, but a simple gift that couple give to each other may provoke love and express how much they appreciate and love each other.
Marital disputes at Eid
In case of disputes and problems between spouses on Eid days, the situation must be controlled and we must not leave it unresolved. You should avoid being loud and violent phrases that can hurt the other side feeling because it all causes children to feel stressed and worried, and unwillingness of the day of Eid because it is linked in their minds to disagreements and problems.
Couple must use their body language in a moderate manner to embrace each other at the time of disagreement, It was not right to use the hand to threaten the other side but to try to pat the husband on his wife’s shoulder during the dispute.
Marital life is not without disagreements, but when any problem occurs, especially on the day of Eid, the main cause of this problem must be thought of. Admit your mistake and quickly find a solution to the problem so that it does not affect the children.
You can ask for help and contact Dr. Mona Reda for all psychological and marriage consultations.
