There are many sexual problems that may affect the relationship between spouses and threaten its stability, such as premature ejaculation, inability to reach orgasm for both parties, erectile dysfunction, as well as different levels of sexual desire, or feeling bored by one or both parties of the relationship. These problems are a combination of mind, body and relationship, surprisingly often it works so well But there are external factors that may be the reason for the occurrence of these previous problems: Desire or sexual drive It is the desire to engage in sexual activity, often including sexual thoughts, images, desires, and… Occurs spontaneously or after sexual activity has begun and means in response to a partner or thoughts that are circulating In the mind, this type is most common in new relationships, while desire in response is more typical in long-term relationships where the partner experiences pressure because it is just a response. It is not an internal feeling that motivates him to do so. fatigue and stress Fatigue and exhaustion in general are one of the most important things that affect sexual pleasure when that fatigue can result from an underlying health problem, the stresses of life in general or simply not getting enough rest due to the demands of living, working and countless obligations that also It is the responsibility of both parties. personal wellbeing A sense of personal well-being is important to sexual interest and activity and can influence system habits Life and exercise of various activities on the health of the body. Not feeling your best, either physically or emotionally, may contribute to decreased sexual interest or response.
social and cultural factors Lack of privacy and personal, religious and cultural beliefs about sex are a cause high in sexual problems.
General relationship problems It is considered an emotionally healthy relationship between two partners and stress can affect the relationship, disagreement with the partner and poor communication makes it develop negatively to affect sexual desire and response. And you should know that it is normal for healthy relationships to become even less sexual over time.
Partner’s physical health or sexual problems The partner’s sexual dysfunction affects the sexual response. If the partner is male, sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, decreased sexual desire, and ejaculation problems such as premature or delayed ejaculation, may occur at any age, but it is known that climax spread They are more common with age. As for women, there are many things that cause them sexual problems, the most important of which is the first of them Childbirth It is common after childbirth to have a low sexual desire and it takes time to heal physically, recover psychologically, and adapt to the requirements of parenting. Low estrogen levels after childbirth also cause pain during sexual activity in most cases, and these problems improve over time.
Transition into menopause which makes estrogen levels begin to fluctuate, and after menopause Those estrogen levels drop dramatically. This may contribute to changes in a woman’s sexual desire and a weakening of her ability to arouse Some of the symptoms that accompany that period, for example, high body temperature, night sweats, sleep disturbance, and fatigue. Vaginal or pelvic pain Many women suffer from vaginal or pelvic pain and always refuse intercourse and their sexual desire decreases because of this because pain during sex leads to fear of more pain, which can reduce vaginal hydration and cause involuntary tightening of the pelvic muscles, which leads to more the pain. Bladder and pelvic problems Changes that affect the bladder or loss of pelvic support and a fall of the organs in its cavity lead to loss of urine or stool, or what is known as urinary incontinence or a feeling of vaginal pressure. Of course, these symptoms conflict with desire and sexual activity in a very large proportion.
How to overcome sexual problems All of these previous problems are easy to solve and get rid of by consulting a psychiatrist Which will help you to overcome all the things that threaten your sexual life and kill the pleasure in the relationship, so consulting a doctor is the first step in a successful treatment that will provide you with support and the right ways to deal with situations that affect you.