Apathy of sexual relations
Passing of many years of marital relationship is the most influential reason on the sexual relationship, and it’s apathy,
If you notice that your sexual relationship has become a routine devoid of romantic feelings as well as the lack of passion and excitement between you
Getting to that point in a relationship and feeling stagnant is common for couples are at some point in the relationship and therefore it is considered a simple matter that can be disposed of, but it might get more complicated and then something might be wrong with the relationship itself.
A person’s behavior with his life partner as a friend may be one of the factors of success in a romantic relationship ,even an overdose of friendship may help to reach a high level of satisfaction with sexual life or even a marital relationship is based on the principle of not having sex, due to the absence of desire.
Do feelings of love really end after some time of marriage?
Some husbands and wives think that feelings of love may end after marriage and in some point they live together and dealt with the command to give up and feel that nothing can be done to make things right, and everyone starts to blame each other.
But if the matter is dealt with, that there is a reason that led to this, here we can talk together and try to find solutions to restore the relationship as it was in the past.
What are the reasons that lead the relationship to apathy?
Most romantic relationships in the beginning are full of passion and enthusiasm for sexual relations, but with the passage of time and the repetition of the issue, the relationship turns and is filled with boredom and apathy, for various reasons such as:
Considering sexual practice secondary and unimportant.
Not reading and educating about sexual relations.
Exposing my life partner to pressures and responsibilities.
Complacency with current sexual life, believing that start to change, will not give good results
Addiction to pornography, which disappoints expectations in real practice
Feeling of lack of energy and decreased libido.
Are there specific periods after which apathy comes?
There is a stage such as the period after childbirth that is accompanied by a kind of aversion, in these cases, doctors advise women to wait for a few weeks afterwards before resuming sexual activity because some studies have shown that 83% of women suffer sexual problems such as pain, vaginal dryness, or lack of sexual desire after childbirth.
In other cases, the cause is the psychological state, which greatly affects sexual dysfunction, and its persistence for a long time leads to an organic disease that requires organic and psychological treatment.
Psychological causes that lead to sexual apathy and weakness, such as stress, anxiety, depression, and the general psychological state resulting from life pressure contribute to the emergence of symptoms of sexual apathy in whole or in part and may end with the disappearance of the cause, and some cases of severe depression and trauma requires psychological counseling and medication to help pass this stage
What can be done to overcome the apathy of the marital relationship?
Boredom in married life is cured by each spouse doing what he can to fall in love with his other partner, work to remove the obstacles that affect their relationship with aversion and get rid of the negatives surrounding them.
Don’t build too many expectations so you don’t end up getting frustrated because building too many expectations around the relationship loses her enjoyment and spontaneity, and even that spontaneous relationship is more enjoyable than the sex on which it built expectations that make him full of burdens.
Mutual respect between you in an intimate relationship is one of the strong foundations for its success, as women lose her sexuality desire very easy when she feels that the partner does not respect her femininity.
Mutual trust in an intimate relationship eliminates all psychological barriers for women and men; especially a woman cares about her more because she does not feel any sexual desire for a man she does not trust.
Stay away from violence and cruelty during intimate relationship, as there are some men who practice
relationship with violence, believing that this increases their masculinity, but the majority of women do not like violence
What do I do if these solutions do not work?
Both parties may try their best to improve their relationship again, but unfortunately the attempts fail and here we have to give you advice
Consulting a psychiatrist will not diminish you, but on the contrary, it will help you to overcome what makes you feel negative and affects your life, and the specialist will do everything in his power to provide solutions
That helps the relationship get back on track
In the meantime, if you are looking for Mental Health Consulting. You can always contact Dr. Mona Reda
please contact us on:
02 24159997
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